Today in this article we would be discussing about understanding online relationship.
Online relationship brings people from different backgrounds together under the same roof, regardless of their differences.
However, to a lot of single, building online relationships, especially in the form of dating is a game for the unserious minds and nothing good can come out of it. While some of these doubters live in fear of online fraudsters, others are afraid of falling prey to ritual killers that have ravaged the online community over the years.
While all of these are true with evidence, there are also many stories and shreds of evidence of how online dating have translated into marriages and successes in various other forms. This comes to prove without any reasonable room for doubt that online relationship is not bad as painted, one just have to be smart enough to know how to get the best out of it.
Investing in an online relationship has its advantages and disadvantages like any other venture in life. However, it seems there is a higher chance that people will hurt those they meet online than they will do to people they see daily. This is down to personality and the general affliction of the inability to share the love. As much as we have bad people online, we also have good ones.
To avoid fraudsters and ritual killers online, whether in friendship, dating, or in business relationships, one must be savvy and play by the rules. Those who became victims of online relationships did not fail because it is a bad venture; they failed because they did not play by the rules. In this dispensation, online relationship, dating or not is highly encouraged.
Experiences and researches reveal that the advantages are more than the disadvantages.
The internet and social media platforms have made it easy to connect people that you never would have met in your lifetime. In the process of meeting
people, you might find out you like a certain person, due to what he posts online, deciding to date such a person is not a bad idea, but to succeed and not be a victim, you need to understand the rules and play by them.
Online relationship, as the name implies is a relationship takes place between two or more people who knew each on the social media platform. This could be because they have similar interests and hereby become friends; it could
be for dating or even business. Online relationship, regardless of the type has its advantages and its disadvantages.
Since Online Relationship is a common practice nowadays, it is, however,important to always ask yourself if you know what you want from it from the
onset. For instance, if you must date online, you must understand that Online Dating also holds a lot of disadvantages since you get to interact with a virtual person or somebody you haven’t met in person yet.
People can be deceitful because the picture placed in the profile may not be his picture or it may be a picture when he was younger. The personality your chat mate has displayed online is way different from his actual personality.
However, online dating, which is a major point here is not as bad as painted.
The advantages outweigh the disadvantages if well managed.
Dating, whether online or offline calls for the understanding of what it means to date and the obligations involved. Many women love to date, but not too many of them know that before they consider dating, they must have what to give; not just what to give or what they think their partners need, but exactly what they want and ask for.
Everyone going into a relationship, whether online or not must understand that their partner has as many expectations, as they have or even more. While women see men who ask for sex as evil, men often see women who ask for money or go for guys with money as materialistic, but that’s not true.
Not on all occasions. This explains that many people do not understand that people often go into a relationship, because of what they want and not what they can give, they only give what they have with the hope that it will help them get what they want. Online relationship is not different.
Moreover, talking about wants, a lady that comes from a financial handicap home most likely will lookout for a partner who will aid her financially– asking for money or going after a guy with money does not mean she is a slut or not wife material, but men do not understand it, and you may not be able to help them understand it.
It is never wrong to go into relationships, online or offline with expectations,and hope to get them. The world will not always give you what you want, and you can’t hold them responsible for it. But you can hold your partner responsible for what you want if you give what he/she wants. That is the
essence of being together as lovers, married or not.
There is a need to understand that as much as you expect your partner to give you what you want in a relationship, he expects the same from you too.
In considering a relationship, whether online or offline, it is only smart to choose someone who wants what you have to offer and values them more and also has and willing to offer, that which you want. That’s what relationship
is about. If you are not willing and ready to know and offer your partner what he wants in a relationship, then you are not ready for one. This is applicable in any manner of an intimate relationship, whether online or offline.